Category: Personal

Wash of Mortification: What I’d Tell My 20-Something Self

My mid-forties loom; my mid-twenties are galloping away. It’s just…it was one thing, in my thirties, contemplating that twenty years ago I was a middle-schooler. It’s another thing to ponder that I was in college twenty years ago. This seems more monumental than it probably is. Things I Would Tell

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Remember When Teenagers Drove Cars?

Twenty years ago, 80% of high schoolers had driver’s licenses. Today, that figure is 63%.  When I was growing up, getting one’s driver’s license was such a big deal. We were prepping at 15, with the driver’s ed, the test-taking, and the graduation from permit to license (furious about the

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The Truth About Habit Change: Basic Needs Come First

Because I write about habit change and goals, my inbox is full of questions about the subject, ranging from “How can I be more assertive?” to “How do I lose weight?” They’re looking for specific answers, and while I have a few (research “spotlight bias” and don’t eat after 6

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So You Want To Talk About Polar Conditions On The Internet

The United States is ramping up (not “starting,” “becoming,” “implementing,” etc.) an Oligarchical/Totalitarian agenda. It’s crystal clear: a masked, armed, police-lite, federally-backed force is assaulting, kidnapping, and killing unmasked, unarmed civilians. That’s bad. The powers-that-be, along with their water carriers, would like to deny the obviousness of that observation. They’ll

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That Time I Called Kids “Trash” On The Radio

Have you ever put your foot in your mouth? Yeah? Haven’t we all. Ever done it live, on the radio? That’s what I thought. If you’d like to expose a large group of people to a crass gaffe, the radio is the place to do it. Now, sit back and let

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40ish Facts About Me

It’s my 42nd birthday! A perfect time for a me-centric article.  I love this type of content, it’s a fun excuse to think and talk about myself. So, please, humor me in this navel gazing exercise. 40ish Facts About Me I’ve organized my facts into categories, as I can’t help

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The Birth of Ish Mom

It’s hard to believe that Ish Mom turns seven this year. In 2018, with a toddler, an infant, and two more kids glimmering on the horizon, the internet felt like a lifeline and a source of frustration. Where was the parenting content that resonated with the reality I was living?

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Criticize Your Darlings

Modern society has a problem regarding criticism. No, it’s not that we’re too nasty or divisive or strident (though, of course, those things are true, too).  It’s the opposite tendency I find worrisome: a seemingly rising inability to criticize things that we like. But all kinds of things that we

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Confessions of a Recovering Manic Pixie Dream Girl

My melatonin nightmares involve rejection from men. It could be my husband, my college boyfriend, some boy from middle school, or maybe this dude I sometimes see (and have never spoken to!) at the gas station.  I have four children. And a husband, mother, sister, and friends that I adore.

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